I already provided a way to release or prevent the magnetic connection that's why I made fun of the question. If you zoom in and move your cursor over a handle you will notice there are 3 hot zones. The middle zone directly over the handle is the way it used to grab. The 2 new hot zones I introduced weeks ago will turn into a left or right pointing hand. When you use the hands it doesn't magnetically connect and it will release an existing connection.