its simple on fpp.
examples: frozen.mp3 sound, frozen.mp4 movie
create a sequence frozen.xml, place mp4 on dummy matrix so you can see it during playback in xlights
save sequence as frozen.fseq
send frozen.fseq, frozen.mp3 to master,
send frozen.mp4 to remote
set a playlist to run frozen.fseq on master
it will start up playing fseq and sound file
remote will be asked to start
"is there a frozen.fseq on remote?" , No, nothing happens for light output
"is the a frozen.mp4?", yes, start movie on remote.
if you had 3 remotes, you could send frozen.mp4 to all of them and you would have 3 projectors running plus the sequence running on master