There are some regularly respected vendors of the hobby, and you may want to check them out (alphabetical order):
All Things Pixels - https://allthingspixels.com/
Crockett Fantasy of Lights (CFOL) - https://cfolights.com/
DIY LED Express - http://diyledexpress.com/
Mattos Designs - https://mattosdesigns.com/
Paul Zhang - http://www.aliexpress.com/store/221277
Ray Wu - https://www.aliexpress.com/store/701799
RGB Man - https://www.facebook.com/TheRGBMAN/
Scott LED - http://www.scottled.com/
Wally?s Lights - https://www.wallyslights.com/
Wired Watts - https://www.wiredwatts.com/
Wizard of Wire - https://www.wizardofwire.com/
Ray Wu is certainly part of that group, and Scuba's link looks to be correct as well.
You typically want to have 4" spacing, as many of the prop vendors expect that, and also to look for 18AWG wiring. Many in the hobby have centered around x-connect to be the pigtail design of choice, which would allow for interoperability between different vendors.
12v tend to be preferred if they will be a long distance from the controller to the prop, or between props. People tend to recommend 5v for things that will be very close together, but you'll have to do power injection more often.
Last, but not least... you may want to check out this great video that helps people wanting to get started quickly:
https://youtu.be/jf7uLhUObAk